Congrats on the upcoming wedding , will it be costumed or traditional? If it's costumed, you should get the invitations out asap so folks can prepare. The choice between those two will pretty much determine everything for the ceremony.
thanks everybody!! and yes it is going to be a costume wedding. i have been looking all over the web for invitations, they are sooo expensive so I think I may make them myself..now I am looking for halloween stencils..if anyone has any ideas please feel free to post them..