The idea that kids not in costume don't get candy or there is some age limit to TOTing comes up almost every year and I still don't get it. It's Halloween.
Would it hurt anyone to give them a few pieces of candy and wish them a Happy Halloween with a big smile on your face? And maybe those same kids will try to make a costume next year, or get some ideas from some of the decorations and stay home and make their own stuff and expand the Halloween love in your area... we're supposed to be showing how awesome Halloween can be, not punishing kids with too little money or worried their friends will make fun of them, or just on the cusp of becoming an adult and maybe trying to stay a kid for just a little longer after all...
I don't care if they are babies in strollers, no costumes, full grown adults - if they say the magic words (or their parent does for the ones that can't talk yet), they get candy and a very sincere "Happy Halloween" at my house.
Anyway.
We prank the kids sometimes by having the husband in full costume out in the graveyard standing perfectly still so they think he's just one of the props. He does this usually in a Michael Myers costume. There are usually several other full size mannequin type props out there too so we've definitely gotten some great scares from the older kids. Especially the ones that say "oh that's not scary!" - he slowly turns his head, then takes several fast steps right towards them, and those
not so scared kids are the ones that scream the loudest.
I sit off to the side to man the candy bucket and warn him to stay still when it is really small TOTs so they don't get extremely frightened.
We also have several props that we can hide in our tree as it has a branch about 6 foot above the ground, like a sound activated spider that drops down on a line. So if the TOTs come up and are laughing loudly or call out for their friends, it's RIGHT THERE in their face when it triggers. Lots of shrieks when that happens.
