we don't have a joint account, per se...its kinda dedicated to our haunt, but registered to me and I'm the only one who ever really gets on here. She does love to hear the comments we get on things, though, and she did get on here too "steal" Terra's flicker PVC candle tutorial.
She deals more with the artistic stuff and she is a meeting/wedding planner, so she handles all the party details and hand-makes different invitations every year and all that...she was excited to learn to do a little wiring all by herself for the candle project this year! This will be our fourth year haunting together, and I find that when I sometimes lose the spirit she's always there bugging me to "let's put the fence up!" or "let's go take the hearse for a ride!" and that helps get me back in the mood.
All my Ex wife ever did was dress up and hand out candy. She helped with absolutely nothing and we never had a Halloween party or anything. Missy, on the other hand, begged to have a party as soon as we had our own house...I didn't put up much of a fight.