Rejecting this theory on the strength of, people are murdered or die ~all the time~ by malice aforethought, and their families dont keep it quiet because of an investigation. To the contrary! There's funerals, its all over the news etc. Death by crime is super hard to keep secret. So, for this reason alone I'm saying this aint it.Stars and stones I hope all is well. I don't want to contribute to the paranoia. But the only other thing I can think of is foul play. If there's an active investigation going on we wouldn't know and people wouldn't talk.