Very true Gym , sometimes i think many of us are gifted a connection if not an extremely brief one of some sort of spiritual link with a past loved one or family member , my friend when he first met his wife to be in the mid 1960s was sitting in a very heavily boxed hedge-rowed lane in a small village in my county called Brenzett , they were sitting in a lane many of her ancestors had walked along over many many years , being a young dating couple he was sitting a few hundred yards from her parents farmhouse which had been in the family for over 200 years , saying goodnight as teenage couples do before there evening was finished , it was just getting to twilight time before dark but just as the night was encroaching , all of a sudden a tall man walked past his car briskly with both his hands clasped tightly behind his back with a slight lurching slope to his demeanor , being so quiet and a very private lane with only one farmhouse located for many miles , there eyes were drawn to him , my friend commented and said to his girlfriend how strange for anyone to be walking down this particular lane at that time of night ? a lane that apart from leading to her parents farmhouse just lead after many miles towards Dymchurch a lovely Kentish coastal town and a couple of other small coastal towns with no other properties for a very long way at least by foot anyway , it was then he had noticed she had gone ashen white , seeing this and being a little concerned he asked did she feel ok , what had caused her to look so shaken and ill ???? she replied that man was my grandfather , and then became quite upset and tearful .
He said i thought your grandfather had passed away ? she replied he had over 15 years before , my friend ever the skeptic then looked and saw the man in the near distance still walking just gradually disappear around a natural curve in the road , he then started his car and drove barely 50 yards which should have clearly showed the man still walking after the natural curve of the road with about 300 yards further to the farmhouse , but there was no one, even though it was starting to get dark the road was visibly empty and quite discernible in the twilight .
My friend Robert got out the car and left his girl friend still sitting in the car turning the engine off and walked for a few yards to double check but there was no one in the lane at all and definitely no tall lurching man walking very briskly , with very very old country hedgerows which a cat or fox may have trouble scrambling through the whole length of the road and standing over 10 feet high on both sides of the whole length of the road going right down to the farmhouse there was no where humanly possible for a solid human being to escape to , or to depart the road through . So where had he gone ????
He got back into his car and comforted his girlfriend and they discussed what they had seen for nearly an hour , the final conclusion for her was her grandfather when he had indeed owned the farmhouse her parents now owned after it was left to them after his passing must have walked that very route many thousands of times coming back from Brenzett village , and indeed going to the village as well , and maybe it was some sort of recorded image burnt on the area of him doing what he most certainly had many times a day for many many years , or was it his spirit just out for a stroll keeping an eye on his grand daughter ??? she thinks the latter , my friend Bob still does not believe in ghosts , but he has no explanation of how he saw along with Lorna his future wife , her grandfather as clear as day walk past his car within 8 feet of him 15 years after his death that evening . Who knows perhaps it was a way for her grandfather to show his acceptance of Bob and a sign this was the man for her ...... i guess we will never know , but they are as i write still an extremely happy couple with two adult children and 3 grand children .
A little footnote many areas of my county have significant ley line areas , fault-lines in the earths crust that some believe can allow supernatural occurrences to occur much more often that un-affected areas , allowing spirits easier ability to show themselves , where others say its these fault-lines which actually cause electrical impulse,s in our brains which allow hallucinations which we interpret as ghosts ....... again what do you think ????