Pfft!
'If I promise you can go'?
"Honey, I'll let you know when I go to Spirit. I'll also gladly do you a favor, because I want to do that, too."
My wife and I get clearance from each other on financal expenses, but I don't need permission to visit a store. Neither does she.
Now if your wife had said "If I promise you can spend $300 of our money at Spirit tomorrow...", that would be closer to the sorts of conversations we have.
'If I promise you can go'?
"Honey, I'll let you know when I go to Spirit. I'll also gladly do you a favor, because I want to do that, too."
My wife and I get clearance from each other on financal expenses, but I don't need permission to visit a store. Neither does she.
Now if your wife had said "If I promise you can spend $300 of our money at Spirit tomorrow...", that would be closer to the sorts of conversations we have.