So I have seen posts about not having enough people come. Any thoughts on how to limit the number of folks appearing? We ended up with almost 70 people in our apartment last time I threw a shindig, and it was so big it was hard for me to enjoy myself! I'm in NYC so halloween is a big deal here, but it seems the effort I put into my parties is heavily appreciated (just more appreciated than I can handle). Thoughts on how to make it more intimate, but without making people feel excluded?