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I love how when my daughter left her facebook open she was complaining about how I will be Amazed when she moves out on how much she does around the house, and can't believe it when I tell her how amazed she will be to see how much I do.

Oh and by the she is 19 and she, her boyfriend, and their baby are living with us, not paying rent, and this post happened after I had to tell her AGAIN to do the dishes, basicly the only job she has around the house. And it was my laptop that she was on, not like I was snoping.

Originally Posted by natascha

Oh and by the she is 19 and she, her boyfriend, and their baby are living with us, not paying rent, and this post happened after I had to tell her AGAIN to do the dishes, basicly the only job she has around the house. And it was my laptop that she was on, not like I was snoping.

I agree, she really should help out more, you have every right to be annoyed at her. Doing the dishes wouldn't kill her.

Teenagers... I feel ya Natascha!

None of my business but, I'll go out on a limb and say you probably change plenty of diapers on top of it? ( and you probably dont mind). Tell baby's daddy to step up and fork over some rent, it'll do him good...seriously. Sorry for butting in.

Yes I have changed plenty of diapers, but I will also just hand over the Baby and say 'He is wet'.

My husband and I have talked about charging them rent, I would actually put it in a account for when they move out, but have not done so yet, the 'plan' is for them to be out my Spring - not sure how well they are doing on saving up for 1st, last and security, Boy had gotten in some debt and is getting it paid off, but if Summer comes and they are not out there will be rent to be paid.

Update, the kids have been out as of April 2nd.

Best part is they are three miles away, so I get to stop by and see the Baby about 4-5 days out of the week. Stop by, chat, play hang out a hour or so, and move on.

The best part is...just before they left the 'dishes fight' go out of hand, 'why didn't you do the dishes?' 'You didn't ask me to' 'I shouldn't have to ask you, not only do you live here, but that is your job, your Only job..do it' finally after saying that a couple of time I said "Done arguing! The sink is empty when you go to bed or Move Out' She is now living with her fiance, kid. and his brother (they were all at my house for over a year (Boys, baby is 8 months old)) she says to her fiance "Michael (his brother) has not done the dishes once sense they moved in together" "Did you ask him to?" "I shouldn't have to ask him to"

Glad they everything worked out!
I/We was a "young" parent and we did it all on our own. We struggled and still do but it makes us who we are. We have LOVE and a great lil family. I have to say tho,I tell my son (who is 15) that he always has to live with me ,even when hes married LOL he says ,yea riiiight!