What about getting the hem of the dress really dirty. Or burned? Maybe a whole playing with matches bit?
Last year I thought my makeup was boring, but I actually got alot of compliments on it. I applied the lightest shade of foundation (at a $ store) I could find & set it with a light dusting of baby powder. Then with a eyeshadow brush (not pad) I applied a combination of charcoal grey & blue eyeshadow along with some old blush around my eyes. The secret is to not overdo it. I then very lightly dusted blue eyeshadow around my lips. Make sure to use all matte colors. Also, if you want your face to look more gaunt lightly apply some of the grey eyeshadow just under your cheekbones.
Another thought that just came to mind is to make up your face to look like a porcelain doll. I'm just not sure how to pull that off exactly. Other than fake eyelashes, rosy checks & red rosebud lips.
Sorry, I guess I'm rambling huh? Thinking out loud again. Oops!