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PACIFIC, Mo. - It's not the traditional "till death do us part," but Scott Amsler and Miranda Patterson believe getting hitched in a graveyard is just thinking outside the box.

Come September, the Illinois couple expects to pledge their undying love among the dearly departed in this St. Louis suburb's city cemetery, even though those who approved the request are dead set against seeing it become a trend.

The wedding wouldn't be out of character for Amsler, 27, a computer expert for a financial company by day and rehabber of old hearses by night.

The graveyard, he said, just has a certain tranquility and thriftiness for nuptials the young couple insists will be small, private and traditional — except for the bagpipes, Amsler's refurbished hearse and the throng of eternally silent witnesses.

"People are going to think how they want. I don't actively try to convince people that my interests are normal or logical," Amsler said. "I'm not a freak or Satan worshipper or cult member. It just goes with our theme."

Deep down, the couple said, it just seemed right.

Amsler and Patterson, who recently moved to Collinsville, Ill., became an item not long after they met in November 2005 at a birthday party where Patterson, 21, was to have been the celebrant's blind date. Amsler showed up in a retooled hearse that caught Patterson's eye.

‘I wanted a ride in it, but I chickened out’
"I wanted a ride in it, but I chickened out at the last minute," she said.

By their first date weeks later, on New Year's Eve, Patterson knew Amsler was the one. Not long afterward, she quit her factory job in Sullivan, Mo., and moved in with Amsler in Troy, Ill.

Amsler proposed last June, affixing to the side of the 1965 hearse — which the two call "Edgar" — a plate with a simple message: "Will you marry me?" Seconds later, the ring slid onto a crying Patterson's finger.

She received Edgar as an engagement gift and had only one stipulation: The wedding had to be outside, in a gazebo.

Her worries were laid to rest while she and Amsler drove to her dad's house. While traveling on Interstate 44, Patterson spotted a gazebo on a hilltop, only to find it was in a graveyard. No worries.

"The view was just gorgeous," she said. "I said, `This is where I want to get married.'"

When the couple called last fall for permission to use the three-acre cemetery, which dates to the Civil War, City Clerk Jo Ann Hoehne told them the local cemetery committee would have to decide.

‘Just a normal young couple’
"When I spoke to them, they were just a normal young couple who wanted to have a wedding someplace they thought was nice and serene for a very small, intimate wedding," Hoehne said. "They weren't any cult group or anything like that."

Bill Hohman, a 71-year-old alderman on the cemetery panel, wasn't sure what to think.

"It's strange to me. This is kind of an unusual thing around here," he said of the country town where the roughly 5,700 residents "roll up the sidewalks at 9 o'clock, and everyone goes to bed."

The committee last month signed off on the couple's request despite concerns about the appropriateness of the setting for the occasion — and fears that a burial might be scheduled for the same time.

Hohman, though, vows to introduce a measure to make Amsler-Patterson nuptials the last among this town's tombstones. "Once the horse is out of the barn, you have to have an ordinance," he said.

But Patterson said she and Amsler have respect for the living and the dead.

"We're not going to do anything stupid or horrible. We just want to have a wedding," she said.

"Some of the ladies I work with said, `Are you crazy? Why would you get married in a cemetery?' Does it matter where we get married, just as long as we get married?"


IMO : They should have waited till Halloween and dressed in Customes like Mr. & Mrs Munster or someone like that.....

Originally Posted by Blinky The House Elf

IMO : They should have waited till Halloween and dressed in Customes like Mr. & Mrs Munster or someone like that.....

I gotta agree with you on that, Blinky. Halloween is a much better time of year for graveside weddings. I don't know about the Mr. & Mrs. Munster, though. I'd say Frankenstein and Bride of Frankenstein would be more appropriate, don't you think?

Originally Posted by michigal

I gotta agree with you on that, Blinky. Halloween is a much better time of year for graveside weddings. I don't know about the Mr. & Mrs. Munster, though. I'd say Frankenstein and Bride of Frankenstein would be more appropriate, don't you think?

well MR & Mrs. Franky would work just as well , Now you got me to thinking about Famous Horror Couples I wonder how many we can can up With. That makes Two to the List:

1. Mr & Mrs. Munster
2. Mr & Mrs Frankenstein
3. Mr & Mrs Addams ( whos next ?)

Okay, Blinky, going back far, how about King Kong and Fay Wray?
Then there's Chucky and Bride of Chucky.
Lessee...can we count Dr. Frank N. Furter and Janet Weiss?

Originally Posted by michigal

Okay, Blinky, going back far, how about King Kong and Fay Wray?
Then there's Chucky and Bride of Chucky.
Lessee...can we count Dr. Frank N. Furter and Janet Weiss?

You Crack me up !! Rocky Horror I forgot about them for and Minute !!
and yes I am old enough to remember Faye Ray !!!
and Chuck is a spoiled Brat.... never liked him. and the winner if the bunch is to be continued,

does Swamp Thing count with his Girlfriend Addraine Barbeau ? But she loooked Normal?

My vote is for Gomez and Morticia Addams!