So sorry for your loss 13Mummy.
I too lost a loved one, it was my dad . His passing happened on Halloween day 2007. My favorite day will be forever changed without him. I had to be strong and it's good to see your being strong as well, especially when loosing a parent too soon. As for attracting the tots to your house, if you can put a kool light up prop on a tall pole that shines as a beacon the tots and there parents should come to see what's instore. Good Luck =0)

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