There is no choice.
Give it up.
Do what only the rest of the world thinks is normal.
Never do anything different.
Never distinquish yourself.
Never be unique.
Die frustrated and forgotten and never getting the promotion because you are invisible and and old horn dog because your wife left you for a 'more exciting guy' and the kids never visit because you never had a life outside of work and are dead now anyway..

does the coffin look better now?
You're welcome.