Perdidoman, you have fallen down on the job, man!

Scarer, this is entirely not right...I'm sure any one of us here would be glad to be your friend, we are a kindred bunch, we are! I'm sure I'm telling you something you already know, but you can also go into your user/cp at the top of your screen and then into the 'Contacts & Friends' link....from there you can send out requests to anyone you like as well.