I understand your perspective, and you're correct. However, if one couple's kid shows up, everyone else gets upset cuz their kid didn't come.
In my situation, I stuck to my guns, as I didn't want my fragile stuff broken, and eventually lost contact with the woman.
Good thing, cuz I later found out her kids are consistently infected with lice, ewww!

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