Thanks Frankie's Girl. She's known to be a good sleeper. I'm hoping that her mom can hold her for awhile then when she falls asleep put her in the pack n play.

Good luck with the toddlers. I would try to keep any of cool props out of reach if you can.

Since your husband isn't that close to that guy, maybe he should just go ahead and just tell him straight off and emphasize again that the party is for adults only. If he gets annoyed, it's no loss to you since he wasn't a really close friend anyway. Oh! Maybe your husband can just tell him that the party has been cancelled! That's assuming that guy doesn't live too close and can drive by to check.